Question by theace: still want her back,what can i do?
she went away a month ago,i tried talking to her even before she leaves but she didn’t want to.now,she is talking about divorce.she attempted on cheating on me,or i believe so,she was exchanging emails with a diplomat” i’m still a student and work in web design”,looking for coffee meeting ,and he was looking for “all inclusive package with dinner “,as i found him saying on an email.i told her not to go but she went any way.now,i know we have problems but i believe we can work it out. but she is asking for divorce.what should i do??.
note she was extremely in love with me before.an i’m really good looking guy ,but im 2 and half years younger than her .and that i’m too jealous,and i admit that i have anger problem
please help
i did all that and i went to therapy,still no progress,and i kept trying to communicate,
we got together a week after the breakup,but she said she came not to talk but to end it ,and she was so mean with me.i can’t seem to believe she is the same person
Joann P what happened that we were apart for more than three month ,and on the way back on plane,she met this guy. she kept talking about him for some time ,and after few weeks she asked me to check her laptop for new mail.thats when i found out about the Emails exchange and the DATE,ever since things got ugly .because i blow out on her face.she left i apologized.she came back.but didn’t speak a word to me for few weeks and sent me to sleep in the couch in the hallway.i told her i don’t need to live this way and we need to talk ,she told me i didn’t intent to come back any way.but you insisted and then she left

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Answer by Crazydude
Try talking to her. If not give it time. That’s all you can do.

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10 thoughts on “still want her back,what can i do?”

  1. If she doesn’t even want to sit down and talk with you, then frankly she jsut doesn’t want to do this anymore. age shouldn’t be an issue and if you truly love someone you work it out. Obviously you are giving more than you are recieving. Try to ask her if you can go to counseling together. But if she’s seeing someone and she’s happier with that person, love her enough to let her just go. I’m sorry about this.

  2. Prove to her that you want her in your life by getting yourself help for your control issues (jealousy and anger)

  3. Marriage Counseling – you need to find out why shes possibly intrested in this other guy. Plus the fact that you dont’ know whats going on there some serious communication problems. Just don’t do anything stupid such as go after this guy and or do anything to yourself. It won’t get her back so don’t try it..

  4. The first step Iwould suggest is that you get some help with yor anger prblem!!! because action speaks loudr than words…

    jealousy is a dangerous emotion, just as bad as stubbornness…

    The best thing yo could do is agree with her! and focus on what you need to, to win her back.

  5. SOMETHING MUST OF REALLY HAPPENED TO MAKE HER MOVE ON LIKE SHE HAS!! WHAT DID YOU DO ? I AM SPEAKING FROM A WOMEN’S POINT OF VIEW,, I KNOW THAT YOU DO NT JUST FALL OUT OF LOVE JUST LIKE THAT!! THERE ARE ALL WAYS TO SIDES OF THE STORY WHAT DO YOU THINK SHE WOULD SAY TO US!! BUT IF YOU LOVE HER SHOW HER IN DIFFERENT WAYS THE ONES YOU ARE DOING NOW ARE NOT WORKING SO DO SOMETHING SO DIFFERENT IT BLOWS HER MIND THANKS JOANN

  6. If she is unwilling to work things out there is not much you can do. Try giving her some space.
    Send her an e-mail telling her that you still love her and are willing to work it out, when she is ready.
    After that, leave her alone. If she really loves you she will realize and come back. Until then hang out with friends, have a little fun.

  7. Sometimes you have to let love go and if it’s meant to be it will come back! If she doesn’t even want to talk to you what else is there to do?? Just move on and she will see what she is missing out on!!

  8. hi if you are as good looking as you say than move on. you sound conceded about your self.and if you are jealous and you have anger problems than what do you have to offer her.who are you to tell her where and when she can go i am sure she don’t need a father she needs a husband and if you are doing her that way than she deserves to cheat maybe that guy will love her for who she is.i am sure she is much happier so you guys need to think before you try controlling a woman.let her go you have had your chance so your loss his gain .

  9. It may seem like you’ll be nothing without her, but ask yourself, do you really want to keep being treated like this?

    I’m in the same situation with my ex, I was crushed when she decided to leave me. But then I thought more about it, and she treated me like shit. I feel stupid for wanting that kind of treatment back.

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